Becoming a More Christ-Centered Church

In my teens, in Sunday School we studied “Christ’s Ideals for Living” by O.C. Tanner. We brought our scriptures to Church each Sunday and learned about Christ’s attributes and how to become more like him. In meetings, we quoted passages of Scripture in our talks while others followed along in their Standard Works. The sound of rustling pages was delightful.

Today we sometimes quote as much from the Brethren in our lessons and talks as we do from the Scriptures. Some ignore Jesus’ teachings about blessing little children and speak about excluding some of them from receiving blessings. Some ignore Jesus’ teaching about casting stones at an adulterous woman and cast stones instead at those who are already marginalized. Some become more focused on ways to exclude others than to include them.

I would not return to a time when my black brothers and sisters were denied priesthood blessings. I would not return to a time when women could not pray in Church or speak in General Conference or when brutal punishments were enacted in temple ceremonies. But, I would return to a time when we focused on Jesus and his attributes: mercy, compassionate, honesty, kindness, and love.

Perhaps by becoming a more Christ-centered Church, leaders would enact policies and procedures that better ensure that are alike unto God. We will decide to safeguard children and women instead of protecting perpetrators. We will bless all of our children. We will find a way to love a little more.

I do not suggest we become Pharisaic followers of the law, but do suggest that perhaps as we focus on the Word, we can become more Christ-like as a Church and as members.

I attend many Sacrament Meetings where Christ is seldom mentioned except for the sacramental prayers. I hear many talks that extol the virtues of Church leaders rather than of Jesus. I participate in too many lessons where General Authorities’ edicts trump Christ’s teachings about mercy and justice and charity.

As a Church, we can do better.

We must do better.

May the LDS Church Reflect Christ’s Love in its Decisions

We are devout, devoted, temple-recommending holding, tithing-paying, imperfect members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We love the Church. We love worshiping God there, serving others in our congregation and community, and learning to love, give, serve, and forgive.

The Church is our tribe. Some of our ancestors gave everything they had, including their lives, to follow the prophets and come to Zion. Others experienced peace and joy when they joined the Church one generation ago. We have seen ourselves, and others, transformed by the power of Christ’s Atonement.

Some of the imperfect teachers and leaders in the Church have showed us how to feel Jesus’ love, which has transformed our lives. Some have not.

After all, no one is perfect.

Some of us have seen miracles: the dying healed, and the broken-hearted comforted, the weight of sin and sorrow lifted by others who radiate godly love. We have seen miracles in our own lives as we have experienced the sanctifying power of God’s grace.

The standards of the Church have helped us avoid the heartbreak of addiction, adultery, and abuse. Jesus’ example has become the light and compass of our lives. We fail and falter often to follow Him as we should, but His unfailing love for us gives us hope and courage that we can be forgiven.

We seek not to criticize Church leaders to challenge them to become a little more Christ-like, just as we seek to do so ourselves.

We seek to be honest in our dealings.

We seek to protect and comfort children, abuse survivors, and the suffering.

We seek to help those in need, especially those who are destitute, forgotten, or despised.

We seek to bring everyone into our circle of love: those who are single, married, divorced, or widowed, straight, LGBT, women and men, people of all races, backgrounds, and beliefs.

We seek to be honest in our business dealings and as we speak to and about others.

We ask the Church to do the same.

We believe that all are alike unto God, including the children of those whose sexual orientation may differ from our own. We ask Church leaders to adopt policies and practices that invite all to come unto Christ.

We believe that children are precious in God’s sight. We ask Church leaders to protect the vulnerable in its congregations, including its children, and to stop defending perpetrators. No victim of sexual violence should be silenced or ridiculed.

We extend to Church leaders the same grace that we expect them to extend to those who speak up to protect children.